Not letting go would be living a lie

There are seriously too many people with too many problems. And the irony is, their problems are present solely because of somebody else, an outside factor. They can easily step out and close the door behind them, but they don't.

The ugly truth(s) :

- Sometimes, we may treat people like their special to us, but our efforts can easily be unappreciated and taken for granted. It's true. You may pour every single effort into someone, and in the end, you may simply turn out to be a spare tyre. Meaning, you're only summoned when THEY themselves need a shoulder to cry on. It's not a bad thing, being a comfort pillow to somebody, but balance is key. Nobody likes to only be needed at bad times, like they're not worthy of the good times.

- If a person is really with your time and effort, they really shouldn't be giving you heartaches and sleepless nights. I mean, you don't need their recognition to be a happy person. Who are they to screw with your feelings? If someone makes you unhappy, then just abandon ship and march on. I may sound selfish, but hey, it's my life and my happiness I'm talking about.

- What happened to pillow talks? If a relationship can be ruined just because you decided to lay the problems out on a table, then you really need to do some thinking. Pillow talks can go 2 ways. Everything may be solved after that, or you will just stop talking and everything will be awkward and awful. But not talking it out is awkward and awful too, so it's a bet worth considering.

- Yeah, you might hurt their feelings, but what about your feelings? Did they think twice about hurting yours?

I know this whole post is really really really SELF centered. But I see no point in being unhappy for a person. It's something I'm learning myself. Sometimes, I just let people ruin my mood too much, like I'm living for them and not myself. And when I turn around, I realize I'm really not that important to them, so why am I letting them interfere with my feelings so much?

Joke: NON-SELF(s) is/are gonna be eaten by phagosomes or be destroyed by antibodies anyway.

(Okay this is really bad but at least I can apply!!!)