never spend to much effort seeking for approval.
approval is as trivial as ego.
in life, you need not search for those who approves of your thoughts and your personality. you don't need those who like you and stay around just because you're flexible, willing to bend over, willing to give in.
stop feeling worthless to those who care little when you're caring for them with all your heart. let go. let them realise what they've lost, and if they don't, they were never meant for you to waste feelings on.
just know that whatever you're committing in, you give what you think is enough, or give more. it doesn't matter. you may feel like the losing party at times, but at least when verdict comes, you know you're not at fault.
give (limited) benefits of the doubt. don't jump into accusation mode although your heart and brain are screaming at you for being in denial, for being weak. it's called protecting what you have. it's called taking a step back.
but when you feel that you've had enough. anchor your feet, do what you have to do. it's called protecting yourself.
when you were born, you only had your parents. they're the only ones that you might not be able to survive without. and you will learn. you will learn to live without those who you think are as essential as oxygen, because no human being is dependent on the other.
it's okay to feel angry, sad or disappointed. it's okay to cry. because it's the best way of telling yourself that you're alive, physically and emotionally. frustration is a way of saying that you care. you don't owe a single soul any explanation. learn to cheer yourself up, know what makes you happy, and do it.
you deserve your aspirations.
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